They made peace. People that dislike each other can make peace. They can change their opinions of each other and themselves. Petty thoughts of resentment can be dropped when you care about someone enough to try to look at the reality of how things are.

And "not necessarily" because I want to know why. Why would a rule like that be in place? Are they inferior? Are they incapable of ruling because of a true physical compromise? If Azetbur was honorable, why would this honor have been wrenched from her hands, and why would her whole gender be punished when her father was only assassinated?